V. Marriage, Divorce, and Sexual Relations
A. Marriage
“Modern notions of proper marriage relations do not necessarily reflect the custom and laws of the Israelites. Most noticeable is the tacitly permitted practice of polygamy in the ancient law. In centuries to come most societies, both religious and secular, will generally disapprove of the practice.
The marriage relationship is assumed to be permanent in nature and necessary for the establishment of certain rights and for the legitimacy of sexual relations (and for having offspring therefrom.)”
MARRYING A CAPTIVE WOMAN Deuteronomy 21:10-14
FIRST-YEAR FREEDOM Deuteronomy 24:5
IF VIRGINITY DOUBTED Deuteronomy 22:13-21
B. Divorce
“The Israelites are taught the seriousness and finality of a dissolved marriage. Later Scripture indicates that any ease of divorce under the Laws of Moses may be merely a concession on God’s part at this time.”
FINALITY OF DIVORCE Deuteronomy 24:1-4
C. Sexual Violations
1. Introduction
CONTRAST WITH PAGANS Leviticus 18:1-5
2. Adultry
“At the heart of the marriage relationship is the idea of faithfulness to the vows of commitment. Faithfulness is important both in marriage ind in the people’s relationship with God. Their unfaithfulness to God is considered spiritual adultery. Breach of the marriage vow by sexual relations with a person other than one’s spouse is so serious that it is prohibited by one of the ten basic commandments.”
ADULTERY PROHIBITED Deuteronomy 5:18
LAW AGAINST ADULTERY Leviticus 18:20
PENALTY FOR ADULTERY Leviticus 20:10/Deuteronomy 22:22
ADULTERY WITH ONE BETROTHED Deuteronomy 22:23,24
WHERE BETROTHED IS SLAVE Leviticus 19:20-22
TEST OF ADULTERY Numbers 5:11-31
3. Fornication
“Sexual relations between unmarried persons may result in certain adverse consequences. As noted previously, the woman’s lack of virginity at the time of marriage can subject her to punishment.” (See Deuteronomy 22:13-21)
4. Prostitution
“Prohibition of sexual relations given in exchange for money concerns not only the unapproved sexual activity itself, but also forbidden participation in pagan cult worship, in which prostitution by both men and women is commonplace.”
EVIL OF PROSTITUTION Leviticus 19:29
NO CULT PROSTITUTION Deuteronomy 23:17,18
5. Incest
“Sexual activity between blood relatives and other near relatives is prohibited. This is therefore the formal end of the early period during which extremely close relatives married each other, presumably for more rapid propagation of the human family.”
PARENTS Leviticus 18:6-8/Deuteronomy 22:30
PENALTY Leviticus 20:11
SISTER Leviticus 18:9
HALF-SISTER Leviticus 18:11
PENALTY Leviticus 20:17
GRANDDAUGHTER Leviticus 18:10
AUNT OR UNCLE Leviticus 18:12-14
PENALTY Leviticus 20:19,20
DAUGHTER-IN-LAW Leviticus 18:15
PENALTY Leviticus 20:12
SISTER-IN-LAW Leviticus 18:16
PENALTY Leviticus 20:21
MOTHER AND DAUGHTER Leviticus 18:17
PENALTY Leviticus 20:14
TWO SISTERS Leviticus 18:18
6. Violation of Uncleanness
“Because a woman is considered ceremonially unclean during her menstrual period, sexual relations during that time are prohibited.”
MENSTRUAL INTERCOURSE Leviticus 18:19
PENALTY Leviticus 20:18
7. Homosexual Practices
HOMOSEXUAL CONDUCT PROHIBITED Leviticus 18:22
PENALTY Leviticus 20:13
8. Bestiality
BESTIALITY PROHIBITED Leviticus 18:23
PENALTY Exodus 22:19/Leviticus 20:15,16
9. Conclusion
WARNING ABOUT SEXUAL SINS Leviticus 18:24-30, 20:22,23
PEOPLE TO BE SEPARATE Leviticus 20:24
D. Separation of Sexes
CLOTHES OF OPPOSITE SEX Deuteronomy 22:5
All quotations taken from The Daily Bible.