I was approached about being part of a band about a month ago, and if any of you know me AT ALL, I love to sing and I absolutely have no problem standing on a stage. SO…when the offer came, I didn’t have to think very hard about the answer.
“But they soon forgot his works; they did not wait for his counsel.” Psalm 106:13
I went to the first practice at the Madison Music Foundry; a real music recording studio, and I was like a little kid at Disneyland. It was so cool!
I met the other band members there…three of whom I already knew and played with on the worship team at church, and three I hadn’t met before. We made our introductions and when the guys started playing, I was awe-struck.
Steve “BigDaddy” played bass and tried to simultaneously play the trumpet which doesn’t work, but when he was able to wail on that horn he sounded like Dizzy Gillespie! Sweet. And when he sings? He’s got so much soul, you need to question his upbringing…and his moves?? White boy has got some moves!
Greg, who I typically see playing guitar, was boss on drums hitting a stellar beat…and watching his face light up when he played was infectious!
Tom “TK” on guitar, has mad guitar playing skills and can improvise like a magician. He has so much fun and so easily adds riffs and calls to a song, he makes a great song howl.
Now, I thought I was in amazing company watching these church boys kill it musically, but when I met the other guys… whoa.
Pedro doesn’t say a lot…but clearly speaks through his guitar. His fingers expertly fly over the strings and seriously plays like Jimi Hendrix.
Will was jamming on the hand drums and tambourine, but when he started singing? Wow. He has the sound and timing of Michael Jackson. It was awesome!
But Dex, the coup de grace, the ringleader and bossman… plays crazy beat on the drums, writes his own music and lyrics, has a chocolaty smooth island voice and can rap… aaaaahhhhh, heaven. But when he pulled out his harmonica and started playing, I think my knees buckled.
Oh, such sweet sounds from this amazing group of musicians…I was waaaaaay out of my league.
“Praise him with tambourine and dance; praise him with strings and pipe!” Psalm 150:4
It was so fun, to just jam and sing, although everyone else was doing all the work! You see, I don’t play much of anything, saxophone a while back, but don’t have a horn anymore…so now I just sing and reap all the rewards of being surrounded by gifted players.
These guys were amazing, and although I had at least heard most of the songs before, I didn’t always know exactly how the beat dropped or how the lyrics flowed, but they were so forgiving of the silly-little-star-struck girl standing awkwardly by her mic.
It was a true blessing to be part of this amazing group, and I was so excited when I came home from practice I could hardly stand it. I learned a couple new songs that I totally loved and was eager to learn more. My kids were excited, my husband too… in fact, the first thing he said was:
“You’re in a band.”
Even the girls at work were excited and “wouldn’t miss” seeing the performance!! Unbelievable. This is something I had always wanted to be part of. Something I had always dreamed of…and now I had the chance!! How could God provide even more of my dreams?!!
Amazing.
Over the next few weeks I noticed that practicing was a lot more time consuming than I had expected. I essentially had to learn all of these songs over again – but this time the harmony part, and there were several songs I didn’t know which raised the ante a bit.
I had to prepare for my writer’s conference in July with a book manuscript and proposal to write, and I’ve been asked to sub at work much more frequently which the money will help immensely for my trip. However, I quickly realized I had gotten myself in way over my head.
When I said yes to the writer’s conference, I prayed a lot over it – seeking guidance and council. But over the band, I just jumped right in. I had always wanted to sing in a group and I saw this as another amazing provision and gift from God…but as the weeks went by I found myself starting to not sleep well at night.
“I bless the LORD who gives me counsel; in the night also my heart instructs me.” Psalm 16:7
I was concerned about the loss of writing time, that I didn’t really know the songs very well and stressing over the timing of everything…but I had made a commitment. I had given my word.
“But let your statement be, ‘Yes, yes ‘ or ‘No, no’; anything beyond these is of evil.” Matthew 5:37
I finally sat down and spent time talking to God about my concerns and asking for guidance and direction over what to do. I voiced my concerns to one of the band members and he encouraged and assured me not to stress it and give me an out. But I was most concerned about Dex. I didn’t want to disappoint him, because I knew he was counting on each of us.
Praise God how He works…
It wasn’t but a couple days later that an email came from Dex saying that things just weren’t working out the way he had hoped, so he was canceling the gig.
“And your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, “This is the way, walk in it,” when you turn to the right or when you turn to the left.” Isaiah 30:21
So I was free. All God wanted was for me to acknowledge Him…to seek His leadership…and to ask for help. A weight had been lifted and I was off the hook, but it broke my heart.
Had I not been called to write and had God not orchestrated all of the stories and provision for the conference, I would have totally been able to commit to the band.
But, isn’t it amazing how easily we can be distracted – even by things that seem like an answer to prayer – a long time “desire of our heart.”
“Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world.” 1 John 4:1
Even if it seems right, we MUST seek guidance from the Almighty. We must make sure our will and step is in alignment with His…because it is possible for us to be lured by the adversary…
our longings met by the one whose promises are empty…
who convinces us we are doing fine on our own.
When we truly seek guidance from the One who longs for our attention, He might just allow us to see that those “desires of our heart” have already been fulfilled.
“Thus says the LORD, your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: ‘I am the LORD your God, who teaches you to profit, who leads you in the way you should go.’” Isaiah 48:17
I am in a band.
I am able to perform weekly, on a large stage, under hot lights, with live mic’s, in a group of outstandingly talented musicians.
And to be a part of a band who plays for God’s pleasure and to worship Him?? Greatest gift and blessing ever…
and EXACTLY what I have always wanted.
The song I fell in love with during my brief stint in a rock band:
I Spy God 